| Parents | 
| Husband | Male
 James Monroe BENHAM
 
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| Birth |  |  | 
| Died |  |  | 
| Buried |  |  | 
| Married | 28 Mar 1841 | Groton, New London, Connecticut  | 
| Father |  | 
| Mother |  | 
| Wife | Female
 Phebe Ann AVERY
 
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| Birth | 14 Oct 1822 | Groton, New London, Connecticut  | 
| Died | Jan 1892 |  | 
| Buried |  |  | 
| Father | Alfred Anson AVERY | F20034 Group Sheet | 
| Mother | Martha SMITH | F20034 Group Sheet | 
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| Children | 
| Child 1 | Male
 James Ira BENHAM
 
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| Birth | 14 Apr 1842 | Groton, New London, Connecticut  | 
| Died |  |  | 
| Buried |  |  | 
| Spouse | Janett LEEDS | F22013 | 
| Married |  |  | 
| Child 2 | Female
 Augusta Avery BENHAM
 
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| Birth | 11 Apr 1844 | Groton, New London, Connecticut  | 
| Died |  |  | 
| Buried |  |  | 
| Spouse | Lester H. PHILLIPS | F22014 | 
| Married |  |  | 
| Child 3 | Male
 George Lewis Edwin BENHAM
 
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| Birth | 1 Dec 1846 | Groton, New London, Connecticut  | 
| Died |  |  | 
| Buried |  |  | 
| Spouse | Regina Maria CROCKER | F22015 | 
| Married |  |  | 
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